Twelve parables of Jesus, sorted by the age at which they usually land, each with its chapter and verse in the New American Bible, Revised Edition (bible.usccb.org), one sentence a child can hold on to and one question to ask afterwards. Then the harder part: how to tell a parable without turning it into a lecture.
The wider list of Bible stories, from creation to the empty tomb, is in Bible stories for kids. This post stays with the stories Jesus himself told.
What is a parable?
A parable is a short story about ordinary life with a second meaning about God. The New American Bible’s note on Matthew 13 says that in the New Testament the word mostly means “stories that are illustrative comparisons between Christian truths and events of everyday life” (note on Matthew 13:3) Scripture. A farmer sows seed, a woman sweeps the house for a lost coin, a father runs to meet his son.
It was Jesus’ normal way of teaching. “All these things Jesus spoke to the crowds in parables. He spoke to them only in parables” (Matthew 13:34) Scripture.
The Catechism gives the line that is most useful to a parent: “The parables are like mirrors for man: will he be hard soil or good earth for the word?” (CCC 546) history. The same paragraph says Jesus invites people “to the feast of the kingdom,” but also asks for a choice, because “words are not enough, deeds are required.”
For a child that becomes one sentence: a parable is a story Jesus told so you can look for yourself in it.
How is a parable different from a miracle?
- A parable is something Jesus told. The people in it usually have no names: “a man had two sons,” “a sower went out to sow.”
- A miracle is something Jesus did. The Catechism says he accompanied his words with “mighty works and wonders and signs,” which show “that the kingdom is present in him” (CCC 547) history.
When an older child asks whether the prodigal son “really lived,” you can say: it’s a story Jesus made up, and what is true in it is what it says about God. Zacchaeus in his tree is different: he’s a real person the Gospel tells us about.
12 parables by age: where they are and one question each
The ages are our suggestion, not a rule. “Means” is our one sentence for a child, built from the text itself, not a summary from a commentary. The question has no wrong answers.
| Parable | Where (NABRE) | Start at | What it means, for a child | Ask |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| The lost sheep | Luke 15:4–7; Matthew 18:12–14 | 3 | God goes looking for every single one. | How did the sheep feel when it was carried home? |
| The lost coin | Luke 15:8–10 | 3 | Heaven throws a party when someone is found. | What would you search the whole house for? |
| The house on the rock | Matthew 7:24–27; Luke 6:47–49 | 3 | Doing what Jesus says is like a strong floor under you. | Which house would you want to be in when it rains? |
| The mustard seed | Matthew 13:31–32; Mark 4:30–32; Luke 13:18–19 | 4 | God makes something big out of something tiny. | What small thing could you do for someone today? |
| The sower | Matthew 13:3–9, explained from 13:18; Mark 4:3–9; Luke 8:5–8 | 6 | God scatters his word everywhere, hoping it grows. | What kind of ground would you like to be? |
| The Good Samaritan | Luke 10:30–37 | 6 | A neighbor is anyone who needs your help. | Why do you think the first two walked past? |
| The prodigal son | Luke 15:11–32 | 6 | God runs to meet us when we come back. | Do you think the older brother went in to the party? |
| The friend at midnight | Luke 11:5–8 | 6 | God wants us to keep asking. | What would you like to ask God for tonight? |
| The treasure and the pearl | Matthew 13:44–46 | 9 | Knowing God is worth more than everything else. | What would you never swap for anything? |
| The Pharisee and the tax collector | Luke 18:9–14 | 9 | God hears the one who is honest about himself. | Which of the two prayers sounds more like yours? |
| The workers in the vineyard | Matthew 20:1–16 | 9 | God’s generosity isn’t a paycheck. | Was the landowner fair? Why or why not? |
| The unforgiving servant | Matthew 18:21–35 | 10 | We forgive because we’ve been forgiven so much. | Why couldn’t the servant let the small debt go? |
A ten-year-old can look up the reference on bible.usccb.org and read the key verse aloud.
What each parable says, in the words of the Bible
Ages 3–5: lost and found, small and big. Little children love the stories with a search and a happy ending. The shepherd leaves the ninety-nine to look for one (Luke 15:4) Scripture. The woman with ten coins lights a lamp and sweeps the house until she finds the one she lost; the NABRE note explains that the coins were drachmas, Greek silver coins (Luke 15:8). Matthew’s version of the lost sheep ends with a line to say slowly to a small child: “it is not the will of your heavenly Father that one of these little ones be lost” (Matthew 18:14) Scripture.
The house on the rock is a story of weather, which preschoolers understand completely: “The rain fell, the floods came, and the winds blew and buffeted the house. But it did not collapse; it had been set solidly on rock” (Matthew 7:25). The mustard seed is “the smallest of all the seeds,” and yet “the birds of the sky come and dwell in its branches” (Matthew 13:32). Luke has someone plant it “in the garden” (Luke 13:19).
Ages 6–8: someone has a choice. The sower is one of the few parables Jesus explains himself, a few verses later: “Hear then the parable of the sower” (Matthew 13:18). The seed on rich soil produces “a hundred or sixty or thirtyfold” (13:8).
In the Good Samaritan a priest and a Levite both pass “by on the opposite side,” and the Samaritan, “moved with compassion at the sight,” bandages the man and takes him to an inn (Luke 10:31–34) Scripture. The NABRE note points out what children miss: the neighbor “turns out to be a Samaritan, the enemy of the Jew.” For a seven-year-old, that is the kid nobody sits with at lunch.
The prodigal son is the one to tell slowly. “While he was still a long way off, his father caught sight of him, and was filled with compassion” (Luke 15:20) Scripture. In many American dioceses First Reconciliation and First Communion are “usually celebrated in second grade” (Diocese of San Diego), and this story fits that preparation well.
The friend at midnight knocks for “three loaves of bread,” and the man inside says the door is locked and the children are in bed (Luke 11:5–7). Right after it Jesus says, “ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you” (11:9). It fits well at bedtime; we collected the prayers for that moment in bedtime prayers for kids.
Ages 9–12: the ones that surprise. Here the “obvious” answer is wrong, and older children enjoy arguing about it.
- The treasure and the pearl. Both men sell “all that he has” (Matthew 13:44–46). The first does it “out of joy,” which is worth pointing out: nobody in the story feels robbed.
- The Pharisee and the tax collector. The Pharisee thanks God that he is “not like the rest of humanity”; the tax collector only says, “O God, be merciful to me a sinner,” and he is the one who goes home justified (Luke 18:11–14) Scripture. Watch for the trap: a child who prays “thank you that I’m not like that Pharisee” has just prayed the Pharisee’s prayer. Kids find that funny, and they remember it.
- The workers in the vineyard. Everyone gets “the usual daily wage,” including those who worked one hour, and the landowner asks: “Are you envious because I am generous?” (Matthew 20:9, 15). A ten-year-old with a strong sense of fairness will be outraged. Good. That’s the conversation.
- The unforgiving servant. Peter asks if seven times is enough, and Jesus answers “not seven times but seventy-seven times” (Matthew 18:22). The servant forgiven a huge debt then seizes a fellow servant over a much smaller one. The ending is harsh (18:34–35), which is why we’d keep it for 10 and up, read together.
How do you tell a parable without over-moralizing?
The fastest way to kill a parable is to end it with “So the lesson is…” Jesus often didn’t. What helps comes from the way the parables are written.
End with a question, the way Jesus did. After the Good Samaritan, Jesus doesn’t give the moral. He asks: “Which of these three, in your opinion, was neighbor to the robbers’ victim?” and lets the lawyer answer (Luke 10:36–37) Scripture. Ask your question, then wait longer than feels comfortable.
Leave the open ending open. The prodigal son finishes with the father pleading with the angry older brother outside the house (Luke 15:28–32). We’re never told whether he goes in. That’s why “Do you think he went in?” is the best question in the table: there is no answer key.
Don’t turn every detail into a code. The NABRE note explains that when “each detail of such a story is given a figurative meaning, the story is an allegory.” Some scholars insist that finding allegory in a parable at all would “introduce meanings that go beyond their original intention”; the note itself calls excluding every allegorical element “excessively rigid” (note on Matthew 13:3). In practice: the father in Luke 15 can stand for God, but the pigs don’t need to stand for anything.
Enjoy the strange bits. The same note says a parable sometimes has an odd element on purpose, like the huge amount of dough in the parable of the yeast (Matthew 13:33), and that “this is meant to sharpen the curiosity of the hearer.” If your child laughs at a shepherd leaving ninety-nine sheep alone in the desert, they’ve noticed exactly what the story wants them to notice.
Don’t use a parable as a weapon. “Remember the unforgiving servant?” in the middle of a sibling fight turns the story into a scolding, and your child will learn to dread it. Tell it on a calm evening instead. If they want to make the connection to their brother, they will.
If your child doesn’t want to listen tonight, let it go. Ask which person in the story they liked and come back to that one another day.
A parable in a shoebox: five minutes, things from home
Parables are short, so they’re easy to act out. You tell, your child moves the props, then one question from the table.
- The sower: a handful of dried beans, a plate with pebbles, a twig for thorns, a pot of soil. Your child throws the seeds.
- The mustard seed: one mustard seed from the spice aisle on your child’s palm.
- The lost sheep: one stuffed animal hidden somewhere in the room. The shepherd finds it and carries it home on their shoulders.
- The lost coin: ten coins, one hidden, a flashlight and a small broom. When it’s found: call the neighbors, or at least the dog.
- The house on the rock: two block houses, one on a plate and one on a heap of flour or rice in a bowl; rain from a cup.
- The prodigal son: no props. Your child leaves the room, and when they come back you run to meet them.
One parable at a time. Telling the same one three nights in a row works better than five in one evening. Several of these come back in the Sunday Gospel: in 2026 the sower was read on the Fifteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time (USCCB, 12 July) and the workers in the vineyard on the Twenty-fifth (USCCB, 20 September). The liturgical year for kids helps you see what’s coming. A child who was the shepherd at home hears the lost sheep differently at Mass.
As of October 2026. Scripture quotations from the New American Bible, Revised Edition.

Eryk Panter
I make HOSANNA! with my family, at our own table. I write the rules, dig through the sources and work on the pictures; the children play first and tell me straight what does not work. Here I write what I was looking for as a dad: how to talk with children about the saints, concretely, with sources and without sugar-coating.
Frequently asked questions
What is a parable, in simple words?
A short story about everyday life that carries a second meaning about God. The footnote to Matthew 13:3 in the New American Bible calls parables 'stories that are illustrative comparisons between Christian truths and events of everyday life.' The Catechism adds that they are 'like mirrors for man' (CCC 546): the listener finds himself in the story.
What is the difference between a parable and a miracle?
A parable is something Jesus told; a miracle is something Jesus did. The people in a parable usually have no names ('a man had two sons'). The Catechism says Jesus accompanied his words with 'mighty works and wonders and signs,' which show that the kingdom is present in him (CCC 547).
Which parable should I start with for a toddler?
The lost sheep (Luke 15:4–7) and the lost coin (Luke 15:8–10). Both are a few verses long, something gets lost and found, and the ending is a party. They are easy to act out with a stuffed animal or a coin hidden under a cushion.
How many parables did Jesus tell?
Scripture gives no number, and lists disagree because the word covers a lot. The NABRE footnote to Matthew 13:3 says the Hebrew word behind 'parable' covers 'axioms, proverbs, similitudes, and allegories.' What is certain is that it was his ordinary way of teaching: 'He spoke to them only in parables' (Matthew 13:34).
Should I explain the moral of the parable to my child?
Ask first, explain later, and keep it short. Jesus himself sometimes ended with a question ('Which of these three, in your opinion, was neighbor to the robbers' victim?', Luke 10:36) and sometimes explained the story to his disciples (Matthew 13:18). A child who answers a question remembers more than a child who hears a lesson.
Were the people in the parables real?
They are characters in stories Jesus told, not historical people, which is why they have no names. What is true in a parable is what it says about God and about us. That is different from stories about real people, such as Zacchaeus or Peter.
Sources
Marks: [H] — Scripture, document, recorded fact · [T] — tradition, legend, custom · [N] — Church teaching · [D] — study, data.
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Luke 15 with notes on 15:1–32 and 15:8 (bible.usccb.org)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Matthew 13 with the note on 'parables' at 13:3 (bible.usccb.org)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Luke 10:25–37 and note (bible.usccb.org)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Matthew 7:24–27 (bible.usccb.org)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Luke 6:47–49, the two foundations (bible.usccb.org)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Mark 4:3–9 and 4:30–32 (bible.com, NABRE)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Luke 8:5–8 (bible.com, NABRE)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Luke 11:5–10 (bible.usccb.org)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Luke 13:18–19 (bible.usccb.org)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Luke 18:9–14 and note (bible.usccb.org)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Matthew 18:12–14, 21–35 (bible.usccb.org)
- HNew American Bible, Revised Edition: Matthew 20:1–16 and note (bible.usccb.org)
- NCatechism of the Catholic Church 541–550: the proclamation of the kingdom, parables and signs (vatican.va)
- HUSCCB Daily Readings, 20 September 2026: Twenty-fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time, Matthew 20:1–16a
- DDiocese of San Diego: Policy on Length of Sacramental Preparation, First Reconciliation and First Eucharist 'usually celebrated in second grade'